June 27, 2010

Carlin went to a Conference...

... In Orlando, Florida. The grandparents said they would watch the kids if I wanted to join him. So, a few clicks on the computer and I had booked a flight for a week long vacation without the kids!

Warning: you might hate me by the end of this blog.

The conference was held at the Grand Lakes Resort. While Carlin was in meetings all day I sat at the pool (with a lazy river), with books, sunscreen, and a pool boy. ;) Just kidding about the pool boy, but the staff did come by asking if you needed anything. I literally sat at the pool all day while the staff brought me drinks and food, it was glorious.





In the evenings, Carlin would join me in the hot tub, or playing checkers.



We sat on a couch in the lounge area and ate sushi.

After the conference, we had an afternoon to ourselves before flying back home. We couldn't resist, we were in Orlando and it was so close and the hotel offered complimentary shuttle rides to Universal Studios. So, we went to the Wizarding World of Harry Potter.

Seriously, everything I had pictured it to be. The Forbidden Journey ride was amazing, just to stand in the line was an adventure. You start out in the dungeons of Hogwarts, then you make your way through the green houses, into the castle itself, through Dumbledore's office, Professor Binn's classroom and then to the ride itself which starts in the Room of Requirements. We had butterbeer which was beyond explanation and pumpkin juice. We didn't go into any of the shops, it was too busy and way too hot. We decided we would just need to come back at a later time.














Yep, it was wonderful and relaxing. If I could I would send all my friends out there and watch your kids for you, just so you could have some much needed time with your husbands and rejuvenate yourself.

June 15, 2010

Dear Mom,

This letter has been a long time coming. I'm sure you expected some kind of acknowledgment on your birthday, but that came and went with the stress of closing on our house. That's all right, there's always Mother's Day, right? But Mother's Day came and went and I still hadn't said anything. That's okay, it's too cliche to acknowledge my Mother on Mother's Day anyway. Right? So, here I am a few days before Father's Day contemplating my relationship with my parents and I decided now was the time to sing your praises.

Mom, we've had an interesting relationship, haven't we? Some of my friends were envious of it, others were shocked and appalled. We've had our ups and downs, as I'm sure every mother-daughter relationship has and we definitely have our differences. You like Nicholas Sparks, I like Daphne DuMaurier. You like chocolate candy, I like fruity candy. You love comedies and chick flicks, I love foreign films and fantasy. I like math, you... not so much. You love rock 'n roll, I love classical. You can sew, I would sooner stick myself with a needle than even try.

But we also have many similarities. I love to cook, you like to eat what I make (mostly). We both have a thing for Carey Grant and wish the dresses from the early 1960's would make a comeback. We have the same mannerisms, the same laugh, and we both dance with our mouths open (I prefer to say we dance with expressive faces). Neither one of us can carry a tune, yet we both love to hum along to our favorite songs. I am the walking-spitting-image of you (except with blue eyes). I used to get upset when people said I looked just like you because I wanted to be my own individual (something else I get from you). Now, I look at how beautiful you are, how you don't look like you could be the Mom of a 25 year old let alone a grandmother to two children, and I think to myself, "dang, I hope I look that hot in another 25 years."

Mom - I know you have your doubts as to whether or not you were a good Mom, let me reassure you - You ARE! Because of you I learned to laugh at myself, people think I have a good sense of humor now. Because of you I went to college. You were the voice in my head that made me finish my degree even when things got tough. You've always expected the best out of me, you always pushed me to do my best. You taught me not to care of others' opinions of me. You showed me how to be considerate of those around me and you taught me that I am a daughter of God.

I still think you are a little crazy - but the thing is, you are MY crazy Mom and I wouldn't have it any other way. To simply put it - I love you, Mom.


P.S. I don't have any recent pictures of you and me, at least if I do I don't know where Carlin has stored them, so this will have to do.

June 11, 2010

Family and other news

Samuel and Lillian have had the opportunity recently to meet some extended family. My Grandma (on my Dad's side) flew in last week and spent a couple of days with us. Samuel wasn't so sure of her at first, but once she started reading books to him she was his new best friend. Sadly, I did not get any pictures, so you must wait until I get the copies from my parents or see if my Mom posts any pics on her blog (hint, hint Mom).

In May we flew out to California and visited my MIL's side of the family. We surprised Great-Grandpa on his 92nd birthday and he was just thrilled to see his great-grandchildren. The kids were exhausted after the trip (Lillian slept in until 8am and Samuel till 11:30am! - my kids normally get up between 6:30 and 7am). We also got to meet Great-Great-Aunt Lillian. She's turning 98!


Lillian with Great-Great-Aunt Lillian


The kids with Great-Grandpa

As for other news, Samuel turned two. For his actual birthday I made birthday brownies and he got to open the gifts from us (as well as a couple of gifts that were given by some sweet friends who were out of town for his birthday celebrations). Then we celebrated with family the following weekend.


Samuel "helping" me make the brownies.

Life has been treating us pretty good and flies by faster everyday. I feel like Samuel, Lillian and I are finally finding our groove. Samuel and Lillian get along super well and Lillian is a little ray of sunshine in our world. Between Samuel and Lillian a day doesn't go by that they haven't made me smile (among other things).